Spoken CAN NOT PAPA ..
Typically, for a young adult woman, who was working diperantauan, who joined her husband's wandering outside the city or abroad, who were at school or college away from her parents .. will often miss with her mother.
And what about Dad?
Maybe because she is more often called to see you doing every day, but do you know, if it Papa was a reminded to call you Mama?
Maybe once when you're little, Mama was the one who more often take you to tell or berdongeng, but you know that after Papa worked and with tired faces Papa Mama always asked about are you and what do you do all day?
By the time you are still a little girl .. Papa usually taught her little daughter to ride a bike. And after Papa could pick up, Daddy would help in the wheels off the bike ...
Then Mama said: "Not yet Dad, do not be removed once the wheels help him"
Mama was afraid sweet daughter fell and hurt ....
But realize you?
Papa with confidence that will let you, look at you, and take care of pedaling carefully because she knew her little girl SURE CAN.
By the time you crying or whining to ask dolls new toy, Mama's looking at you with pity. But Papa would say emphatically: "Sure, we buy it later, but not now"
Know ye, Papa did it because he does not want you to be a spoiled child with all the demands that can always be fulfilled?
When you're a cold, Papa was too afraid to yell at times a bit by saying: "It's the tell! You do not drink cold water!".
Mama's differs from the notice and advise you gently. Know, then Papa really worried about you.
When you've got a teenager .... You start demanding at Papa permission to go out at night, and you stand firm and say: "No
Did you know that Daddy did it to take care of you? Because of Daddy, you is something very - very unusual precious ..
After that you're mad at Daddy, and entered the room, slamming the door ... And who came knocking doors and persuade you to not upset the Mom ....
Know ye, that it was Papa closed his eyes and held her in her inner turmoil, that Papa was eager to follow your wishes, but again he MUST take care of you?
As when a guy started to call, or even come to the house to see you, Daddy would put the world face the coolest .... : ')
Papa occasionally eavesdropping or peeping when you're chatting together in the living room ..
You realize, if heart Papa felt jealous?
When you start to believe, and Papa to loosen some rules to leave the house for you, you will be forced to violate his evening hours.
So did Daddy was sitting in the living room, and waiting for home with a heart that is very concerned ... and the feeling of fear that a protracted ... when he saw his little daughter came home late at night will harden the hearts Papa and Papa scold .. .
You realize, that this was because it was feared that Papa will soon come? "That little girl will soon go away Papa"
After graduating from high school, Dad will be a little force to become a doctor or engineer.
Know that all coercion is done solely Papa - the eyes just thinking about your future later ...
But then Papa kept smiling and support you when your choice is not in accordance with the wishes Papa
When you become an adult girl .... and you have to go to college another town ... Papa had to let you at the airport.
Did you know that Papa body was stiff to hold you?
Papa just smiled and gave this advice - that, and told to be careful. .
And Papa wanted to cry like Mama and hug you tight.
What Papa do is remove a little tear in the corner of his eye, and pat your shoulder saying "Take care of yourself well yes dear".
Daddy did it all for you STRONGER ... strong to go and become adults.
While you need money to finance half of the money and life, the first person is frowned Papa.
Papa must have tried hard to find a way so that his son could feel the same with his friends the other.
When the request is no longer just asked for a new doll, and Dad knew he could not give what you want ...
The words that came out of Papa's mouth is: "No. .... I can not!"
Whereas in the inner Papa, he was eager to say "Yes dear, I'll buy you Daddy".
Did you know that at the time Papa was failing to make her smile?
It's time you graduated as a scholar.
Papa was the first to stand up and give you applause.
Papa will smile with pride and satisfaction of seeing "the little girl who did not grow up spoiled work, and has become someone"
Until now, a friend of Man came to the house and asked permission to take you from her Papa.
Papa would be very careful about giving permission ..
Because Papa knows .....
That man is what will replace him later.
And finally .... When Papa saw you sitting on the stage Pelaminan
with a man who find it worthy of replacing, Papa
smiled happily ....
Did you know, on that happy day Papa went round the stage for a while, and crying?
Papa cry because papa was very happy, and Papa prayed .... In a quiet prayer to God, Papa says: "O Lord my job well done my little princess .... funny and I love has become a beautiful woman .... she Bahagiakanlah with her husband ..."
After that Papa can only await with his grandchildren who occasionally come to visit ...
With that hair and the white .... And the body and arms are no longer strong enough to protect you from danger ....
Papa has completed its work ....
Daddy, Daddy, Dad, or Abah we ... Is a figure that must always appear strong ... Even when he was not strong to not cry ...
He had to look firmly even when he wants to pamper you. .
And he was the first person who always believed that "YOU CAN" in all things ..
Yup, a lot of things that might not be said Father / Father / Father / Papa / Papi us ... but at least now we understand what is hidden behind her;)
Yes I love you so much, Dad. ..
by : Zahra Mona Nasution